kill a fetus – miscarry a baby
(warning: graphic pic at the bottom)
one thing i will not do here is argue sides. im not interested in fighting over abortion. but i will stand for life. and the right to live it.
i do not wanta call people out or point fingers but i have an issue with something. ok…i have issues with many things – but this one boggles my mind every time.
i read once, from one person in the same paragraph, a comment about a young girl who had just aborted her “fetus”. this writer gave her opinion and felt this was the best thing for this young lady-she would heal fast and move on. a couple sentences later she consoled another young lady who had just miscarried. she extended her condolences for the loss of her “baby”.
so if i understand this logic correctly…it is a fetus if you dont want it and baby if you did.
how can that be? does this somehow justify a position?
it has been argued that a “fetus” can not live outside the womb, therefor it is not considered a life.
that is correct. to a point. while a growing baby inside its trusted mothers belly cannot sustain its own life early on, either could a newborn baby. if you take the mother away from both, born and unborn, they can not live without her. put a newborn, immediately after delivery, on a table and walk away it will, before long, die. but no one would ever do that. we know, instinctively that there is a process to growing, to becoming. and that process begins immediately at conception. that is the starting point. period. how some can argue that is so far beyond me it makes my head hurt and my heart bleed in agony.
and ive found that a vast majority of those who stand on this logic have never had an abortion.
im sorry…but if youve never walked in the shoes of a woman who has had, albeit chose to, a life literally ripped out from inside her then sent on her way home bleeding amounts of blood that is nothing less than frightening, passing clots the size of plums, doubled over in pain unexplainable and grappling with the reality of a choice that cannot be undone…you have absolutely no right, whatsoever, to give your opinion on abortion or the sanctity of life.
so to these people, please, if there is something else you actually know something about…perhaps cooking, dodge ball, knitting or miming…please invest your time there.